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Module 3: Be Equipped

Knowing What To Say and *Where To Turn*

Before you can fully support a young person in crisis, you need more than awareness—you need tools. This module equips you with communication strategies, practical do’s and don’ts, and knowledge of local and national resources. You don’t have to be a mental health professional to make a difference. Sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do is simply notice, listen, and connect a young person to help.

Being equipped gives you confidence—and confidence builds trust.

Moments of Reflection

Think of a young person in your life.

If they came to you in distress, what words would you want to have ready?

Facts From This Video:

Direct, compassionate questions like “I’ve noticed you haven’t been yourself lately. Do you want to talk about it?” can encourage openness.¹

Listening without judgment is one of the most effective ways to support youth.²

Statements such as “I’m here for you” and “You’re not alone” help reduce feelings of isolation.²

Harmful responses—like “Just get over it”—can increase feelings of shame and prevent future disclosure.³

In Tulare County, the 24/7 Access and Crisis Line (1 (800) 320-1616) and Mobile Crisis Response Team (MCRT) provide immediate support.⁴

Having knowledge of local and national hotlines gives trusted messengers confidence to take action.⁴

Things To Remember:

You don’t have to be a professional to make a difference.
Start conversations with care: ask, listen, stay calm.
Supportive words matter just as much as avoiding harmful ones.
Dismissing feelings can shut down trust instantly.
Turn to local and national resources to connect youth to help.
You don't have to have all the answers to support the next step.

Continue the Journey

Every step builds your confidence to support the youth in your life. Move forward or back to continue the training at your own pace.

Sources & Citations

¹ American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. (2023). Having a #RealConvo: Conversation Starters and Tips. https://afsp.org/realconvo

² Mental Health America. (2023). How to Help Someone Who May Be Struggling. https://mhanational.org

³ Mayo Clinic Staff. (2022). Suicide prevention: How to support someone in crisis. Mayo Clinic. https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/suicide/in-depth/suicide/art-20044707

⁴ Tulare County Health & Human Services Agency. (n.d.). Mental Health Crisis Services. https://tchhsa.org/eng/index.cfm/mental-health